Couch Cushion Camels

Since moving to North Carolina I've gotten the chance to spend some quality time with my grandmother. One of my favorite parts of spending time with her is hearing the stories about my siblings and myself when we were little. It always amazes me how much of your life you don’t remember when you are young. A few days ago we were sitting down eating dinner and my grandma began to tell me the story of a time when my cousins were visiting. My older brother and my cousins were playing a game and they wouldn't let me play with them. According to my grandma I walked away unfazed and began taking the cushions off of the living room couch. I went into the next room and apparently “built” myself a camel and I began to ride the couch cushion around the room. My brother and cousins took notice and immediately decided that they wanted to ride my couch cushion camel.  Unfortunately for them I only made one camel and my grandmother wasn't about to let them take it away from me. She said it made them so mad that they couldn't play with the camel. It was almost like there really was a camel in the living room, when it was simply just a few couch cushions. Then, after telling the story, she looked at me and said “And that’s one of the reasons you’re in advertising…you have a wild and creative imagination”.

I’ve always had a passion for creativity and wanted that to be part of my future career choice. And my grandmother was right, I’ve always had quite the imagination. The amount of adventures that I created for myself with my imagination when I was little were endless.  And my grandmother is also correct in telling me that that’s why I got into advertising. After all part of an advertisers job is to make people see things or feel things that were maybe invisible or non-existent to them before. Sometimes you have to go out of the box…WAY out of the box…to draw attention to something. You have to be willing to use your imagination and try new things to get a product or an idea to resonate with people. I know I’ve said this exact same thing in my posts before. So why am I saying it now? Because lately my team and I have run into a lot of clients (as I am sure many others in the industry do on a daily basis) that won’t take that small step outside of the box. And it makes it unbelievably hard to do anything creative or attention grabbing to get people interested in their product. And isn’t that kind of the point of hiring an advertising/marketing team?

How are we supposed to tell stories, engage emotions, and create connections between people and products if we keep doing the same old boring things? Let me clarify something really quickly. I understand that not every service or product is elevated by out of the box ideas. For some industries creative humor or off the wall attention grabbers can actually turn someone away from wanting to use the products. But being creative doesn't have to mean making something humorous or completely off the wall. Being creative consists of trying new things and bringing new ideas to the table about how to present a product or service.The problem is that people are so wrapped up in the idea that doing something “out of the box” could frighten away new or existent customers. It’s a natural instinct to want to protect your brand and I sympathize with that. But what’s going to happen if we continue to always play it safe and continue to do the same old boring things over and over. The reality is that other brands that make the decision to try something new are going to crush right where you stand.

So how do we solve this problem?  Advertisers, marketers, and business owners need to start playing on the same team. Communication is vital. The more comfortable you are with someone representing your brand the more comfortable you’ll be letting them try new things. Let the business owner be a part of every step that is taken in creating a new campaign. Keeping each other on the same page through the entire process is vital. Advertisers and marketers need to take into consideration the ideas and concerns of the business owners. At the same time the business owners need to allow the advertisers and marketers to use their industry knowledge to make important decisions. After all most advertisers/marketers do their research and understand the current trends in the industry and might have more knowledge in a certain area than a business owner would. Let each other do the jobs they have been trained to do while taking into account each other’s thoughts and opinions.

At the end of the day both sides need to understand that some things are going to work and others just won’t. You’re never going to know until you try. I think both sides of the equation need to understand that failure is ok. It teaches you what you audience doesn’t respond to so that next time you can do better. If you want to do something amazing with your brand it’s time to start stepping out of the box. Sometimes you have to take off your suit and let your 5 year old couch cushion camel riding inner self out. It’s time to do something epic for your brand!

In the mean time I’ll be in the living room taking my camel out for a spin.

Shakira! Shakira!

That moment when you realize that Avril Lavigne’s “Here’s To Never Growing Up” song inspired the copy you wrote for duel flush toilets.

It’s weird, I know. And why that song inspired the writing of content pertaining to toilets I don’t think I will ever understand. The one thing I know is that I had been stuck on trying to figure out what to write about duel flush toilets for quite a while. And as soon as that song came up on my Pandora playlist I was magically inspired to write a captivating paragraph on why duel flush toilets are so cool.  

Shakira is another one of those magical musical muses for me. You would think when it’s time for me to write something intelligent, captivating or inspiring that maybe a little Mozart would do the trick. Nope. Shakira is my girl all the way. Why? Maybe it’s because her hips just don’t lie. Quite honestly, I have no idea.

The point of this little rant is to keep in mind that not everything is as black and white as it seems. Everyone draws inspiration from different places. For some people it comes from music, for some art or text or even other people. Sometimes the silliest things can bring to light a brilliant new idea. I am hoping that I can always continue to be myself and draw my own inspiration out of the things I love and not always follow the traditional path. I also hope Avril never gets ahold of this blog post.

Anyways, enough of this silly little rant. Shakira and I have got to get back to work! 

Dreamer

This is the thing. If you want something don’t be afraid to go get it.

I’ve always been a big believer in dreaming big. I try not to put limits on the things that I want to try. I don’t think anybody should. Yet, we live in a world where people are constantly telling us what we can and can’t do. And the problem is that we listen to them.  

I think the issue is that we get so caught up in the “what-ifs” and we scare ourselves out of trying something new. It’s our nature to want to feel comfortable and secure in what we are doing. But because of that we often times miss out on amazing opportunities.

My two months so far in the advertising industry has taught me a few things:

• Sooner or later you are going to fail at something
• Some of the greatest ideas come from a series of rejections
• Even the highest level executive doesn’t know everything
• If you don’t keep pushing yourself to learn new things you’re never going to advance
• New challenges can be very stressful, but they can also be very rewarding

I’ll be honest with you and say that there are a lot of days in which I have absolutely no idea what I am doing. I’ve failed at a lot of things on my first attempt. But that’s part of the learning process and because of those failures I have learned so many important things. It’s made me a better all around person. It’s also kept me quite humble in the process which is always a good thing.

I’ve learned the importance of immersing myself in everything I can possible be a part of. I’m on my way to becoming an SEO guru, I’ve lined up and will be conducting an interview with a big NYC fashion designer, I will be filming videos for accessories  for one of our clients, and today I was assigned as the sole project manager for a new client. And I’ve only been working for two months. I think that is proof right there that there shouldn’t be limits on what we think we can do.  It’s proof that you shouldn’t be afraid to dive into things and learn as much as you can. The worst thing that could possibly happen is that it doesn’t work out. Then you move onto your next dream. So don’t let anyone tell you what your future is going to look like. Create it for yourself. Simple as that. 

Stay tuned for my big interview with NYC fashion designer CARRIE PARRY later this week! 

The Art of Eating Your Feelings

In my world there is not much that a bowl of chocolate ice cream can’t fix. After a day of stress or disappointment you can usually find me in the kitchen concocting some sort of comfort food or dessert. I’m not sure what it is about baking but it’s a big comfort to me. It takes my mind off of the problem at hand, keeps me busy, and at the end of the day I have something delicious to eat.

These last few weeks have been pretty rough with work, school, and rejection after rejection from jobs I’ve applied to that “just aren’t hiring”. It’s kind of a scary time in my life. I’m only working a minimum wage job, can’t find a full time career, and yet the real world bills are starting to come in.

I know a lot of you reading this are in the same position as I am. And let’s face it…it down right sucks.      (Can I get an AMEN?) My advice to you is to find something you enjoy doing that will pick you up when you’ve fallen face down on the floor. I’ve got a feeling my journey of stress and rejection is just beginning and until I find the right job I’m going to need something to get me through. I also do Zumba…mostly so that I don’t feel guilty about eating my feelings when I need to! J

Today I made a homemade ice cream cake and after the first bite I was already feeling 100% better. Ahhh the power of chocolate! The best part is that they are super easy to make!

How to make a homemade ice cream cake:

     1) Buy any flavor pie crust that you like. I used an Oreo pie crust.

     2)   Pick out an ice cream flavor (or two!) that you enjoy.

     3)   Let ice cream slightly thaw and spread it out into the pie crust.

     4)     Freeze and ENJOY!

Remember friends, it's always darkest just before the dawn. And while you're in the "dark" phase all you might need is a good dessert to get you through! 

Rainbows, Sunshine, and Butterflies

It has officially been way to long since I have made a post in the blog. The reason is because I have just entered the magical time in my life where I begin frantically looking for full time careers because graduation is only two months away. Let me tell you it’s a plethora of rainbows and sunshine and butterflies! I’m going to use this post to jot down some of my thoughts that might be helpful for fellow or future graduates. This new chapter of life can be scary, nerve wrecking, exciting, challenging, empowering, and make you want to pull out all of your hair at one time. Here are a few things I’ve learned in the process:

   1)START EARLY – Start sending out resumes and job inquiries at least 4 months before you graduate. The hiring process can take a long time and chances are you’ll apply to 30 companies and only hear back from one. I am so grateful I started this process a month ago as I am just starting to hear back from places.

   2)SEND OUT EMAIL INQUIRIES - Just because somewhere you want to work doesn’t have a job posted doesn’t mean that they don’t have any open positions.  As a sophomore in college I sent out a random internship inquiry email and ended up with a fabulous job at an advertising agency. In my current job search I’ve gotten nothing but positive feedback. Several agencies weren’t hiring but were happy to put my resume in a file for later down the road. One agency even set up an interview with me. I’m currently waiting for the second interview! It doesn’t hurt to ask. Let’s be honest … the worst thing an agency will do is delete your email because they aren’t hiring. So far in all of my experiences I have gotten nothing but positive reactions.

   3)   THANK EVERYONE YOU TALK TO- This is SO important. Once you finally get the opportunity to interview with somebody make sure they know that you appreciated the time they spent with you. Business people are extremely busy. Even taking 15 minutes out of the day to talk to someone can be a challenge. If someone makes the time for you a thank you card is a necessity.

      4) BE PREPARED- Have your business cards ready to go along with a nice dress suit. In the beginning things can move very slowly. But when things happen they happen fast! Always be prepared!

   5) CONNECT- If you are interested in a specific company and you send them a resume research their social media outlets. Follow them on Twitter or “Like” them on Facebook. Make professional comments on their pages. You never know who’s at the computer reading your messages. Get connected!

   6) FREAK OUT- It’s ok to freak out from time to time. You emotionally invest yourself into job opportunities. It’s normal to be anxious and excited about hearing back from a specific place. This week I went shopping twice, over indulged in chocolate truffles, got a new hair cut, and got my nails done just to keep myself busy and calm my nerves. It’s natural and everybody feels anxiety in these kinds of situations. 

   7)  RELAX- I have to believe that when the time is right I will be placed in the right work situation. I’ve had to remind myself that maybe some opportunities don’t work out because there are better opportunities down the road. Take a breath, relax, and continue to put yourself out there. 

From The Inside Out

You've given me the gift of music...so I will play for You.

So happy to call Matthew Klug my Valentine!

I worked on re-composing "Wanted" (one of my favorite songs) for you. I hope you enjoy it! Wish I could be spending the day with you...but because I can't I will send some love in the form of my music to you!