Laughing My Dentures Off

The Challenges of Marketing for Retirement Homes

One of the hardest decisions that we have to make as we grow old is the decision to leave home and move into a retirement facility. It can be a heart wrenching and emotionally draining experience. It’s a decision that is often times put on the back burner and avoided for as long as possible. At the same time there is a world full of marketers that are in charge highlighting the positive aspects of retirement home living. So how do we as marketers go about connecting with people that are making these life changing decisions? How do we turn a sometimes grim reality into a positive idea? It’s safe to say that marketing for retirement facilities definitely comes with its own set of unique challenges.  From initially connecting with our target market, to getting past society’s preconceived notions about the senior population and retirement communities to deciding on the best way to execute a marketing strategy we definitely have our work cut out for us.

The first challenge is making a connection. While traditional advertising is still very much alive digital advertising has without a doubt made its mark in the marketing world. Using platforms such as Facebook and Twitter have opened up so many opportunities to connect with different groups of people. With everyone jumping on the digital media bandwagon it makes sense that that’s where you’re going to want to be to get in touch with your target audience. The challenge is that most retirement facility owners are extremely hesitant to give away part of their marketing budget to use on these mediums. The reason? They believe that digital mediums, such as social networking sites, are for younger people. This proves to be quite a misconception as the Pew Internet Research Studies prove that 56% of the 65 and older crowd are internet users. Furthermore the Pew study proves that out of that percentage 43% of those seniors have a Facebook or Twitter page. That’s a fair amount of people that you would be missing out on if you neglected digital marketing all together.

So we’ve proved a point that there are seniors that use the internet and social networking websites. But there is still the reality that 44% of the senior population doesn’t use the internet at all. So how do we once again validate that using digital media is a valuable way to spend part of the marketing budget? The Pew studies also point out that 92% of people 64 and under use the internet. All of the children and grandchildren of the senior population fall into this category. Chances are that when one of your loved ones is looking into a retirement facility you are going to want to do some research yourself to make sure your parent or grandparent ends up in a good place.

The next challenge is creating content for a digital medium. You’ve got to keep in mind there are several different types of retirement homes. Some homes are designed for seniors who are lively and independent and are just looking for a place to retire in a community of people their own age. Some facilities are designed around caring for people struggling with Alzheimer’s and Dementia, and some are focused on people who have health problems or just can no longer care for themselves. Each kind of retirement home is going to use different tactics and tones in their marketing strategies. The one thing that they have in common is that they have to convince the viewer that their retirement facility is going to be a safe and happy home for whoever is going to live there. The tough part is deciding on what is appropriate to say for each retirement home category.

It’s obvious that a marketing campaign for an Alzheimer’s care facility might not be as fun and care free as for a community for independent retirees. You’ve got to keep the content appropriate for the situation but at the same time you don’t want to make moving to a facility sound depressing.  How do you solve this problem? For facilities that cater to people with more delicate needs an informational approach might be the best way to go. Providing informational and reassuring material to the viewers is educational and can be helpful when deciding on a facility for a loved one that needs special care. The content for a retirement community that caters to a more lively and independent group can usually be a lot more playful and fun. Posts for this group might consist of fun photos of outings and information about the fun activities happening around the campus. So is hash tagging a post with #LMTO (Laughing My Teeth Out) going too far? It all depends on the atmosphere of the community you are trying to promote. At the end of the day you have to reassure your audience that your retirement home provides the kind of care that you or your loved one needs and that it will be a safe and happy homey environment.

One of the last major challenges that marketers face while promoting retirement facilities are negative reviews. You might read one negative review about a restaurant because someone had a bad experience. But chances are that it’s not going to stop you from trying out the restaurant if you are interested trying it out. It’s a completely different story with retirement facilities. No one is going to risk the happiness or safety of themselves or a loved one if someone else had a bad experience. One incident can completely destroy a retirement community’s reputation.  The hard part is that when a bad review comes out it’s not always the fault of the retirement home. The internet gives people the power to write whatever they want in reviews whether it’s true or not. So how do you combat this? Listen to your residents. Constantly monitor what’s being said about your facility online. Collect testimonials from current residents that are happy with their experience at the retirement facility. Fifteen people giving a retirement home a good review might just be enough to overturn that one bad review someone gave you for a silly reason. Online reviews have a lot of power to influence decisions both positively and negatively.

It’s time to get over the preconceived notions about the senior population and retirement communities. There are so many opportunities to reach out to seniors and their family members and invite them into your community.  Connect with people online, engage and communicate with interested audiences, and build a positive name for your facility. Marketing for retirement communities can definitely be challenging. Luckily for marketers there are strategies to deal with all of the challenges that cross our paths.

If you or a loved one are in need of a retirement home community check out some of the awesome facilities that my company works for! A CCRC is a community that transitions with you as your assistance needs may change. Check out PPh Family a Philadelphia CCRC that offers care from independent living through memory care. If your primary focus needs to be memory care check out Azura, a Wisconsin Alzheimer's Community that specialized in Alzheimer's and Dementia care. If you needs are more geared towards living independently you should look into The Cypress of Charlotte, a beautiful  Charlotte Independent Living Community.

Couch Cushion Camels

Since moving to North Carolina I've gotten the chance to spend some quality time with my grandmother. One of my favorite parts of spending time with her is hearing the stories about my siblings and myself when we were little. It always amazes me how much of your life you don’t remember when you are young. A few days ago we were sitting down eating dinner and my grandma began to tell me the story of a time when my cousins were visiting. My older brother and my cousins were playing a game and they wouldn't let me play with them. According to my grandma I walked away unfazed and began taking the cushions off of the living room couch. I went into the next room and apparently “built” myself a camel and I began to ride the couch cushion around the room. My brother and cousins took notice and immediately decided that they wanted to ride my couch cushion camel.  Unfortunately for them I only made one camel and my grandmother wasn't about to let them take it away from me. She said it made them so mad that they couldn't play with the camel. It was almost like there really was a camel in the living room, when it was simply just a few couch cushions. Then, after telling the story, she looked at me and said “And that’s one of the reasons you’re in advertising…you have a wild and creative imagination”.

I’ve always had a passion for creativity and wanted that to be part of my future career choice. And my grandmother was right, I’ve always had quite the imagination. The amount of adventures that I created for myself with my imagination when I was little were endless.  And my grandmother is also correct in telling me that that’s why I got into advertising. After all part of an advertisers job is to make people see things or feel things that were maybe invisible or non-existent to them before. Sometimes you have to go out of the box…WAY out of the box…to draw attention to something. You have to be willing to use your imagination and try new things to get a product or an idea to resonate with people. I know I’ve said this exact same thing in my posts before. So why am I saying it now? Because lately my team and I have run into a lot of clients (as I am sure many others in the industry do on a daily basis) that won’t take that small step outside of the box. And it makes it unbelievably hard to do anything creative or attention grabbing to get people interested in their product. And isn’t that kind of the point of hiring an advertising/marketing team?

How are we supposed to tell stories, engage emotions, and create connections between people and products if we keep doing the same old boring things? Let me clarify something really quickly. I understand that not every service or product is elevated by out of the box ideas. For some industries creative humor or off the wall attention grabbers can actually turn someone away from wanting to use the products. But being creative doesn't have to mean making something humorous or completely off the wall. Being creative consists of trying new things and bringing new ideas to the table about how to present a product or service.The problem is that people are so wrapped up in the idea that doing something “out of the box” could frighten away new or existent customers. It’s a natural instinct to want to protect your brand and I sympathize with that. But what’s going to happen if we continue to always play it safe and continue to do the same old boring things over and over. The reality is that other brands that make the decision to try something new are going to crush right where you stand.

So how do we solve this problem?  Advertisers, marketers, and business owners need to start playing on the same team. Communication is vital. The more comfortable you are with someone representing your brand the more comfortable you’ll be letting them try new things. Let the business owner be a part of every step that is taken in creating a new campaign. Keeping each other on the same page through the entire process is vital. Advertisers and marketers need to take into consideration the ideas and concerns of the business owners. At the same time the business owners need to allow the advertisers and marketers to use their industry knowledge to make important decisions. After all most advertisers/marketers do their research and understand the current trends in the industry and might have more knowledge in a certain area than a business owner would. Let each other do the jobs they have been trained to do while taking into account each other’s thoughts and opinions.

At the end of the day both sides need to understand that some things are going to work and others just won’t. You’re never going to know until you try. I think both sides of the equation need to understand that failure is ok. It teaches you what you audience doesn’t respond to so that next time you can do better. If you want to do something amazing with your brand it’s time to start stepping out of the box. Sometimes you have to take off your suit and let your 5 year old couch cushion camel riding inner self out. It’s time to do something epic for your brand!

In the mean time I’ll be in the living room taking my camel out for a spin.

Shakira! Shakira!

That moment when you realize that Avril Lavigne’s “Here’s To Never Growing Up” song inspired the copy you wrote for duel flush toilets.

It’s weird, I know. And why that song inspired the writing of content pertaining to toilets I don’t think I will ever understand. The one thing I know is that I had been stuck on trying to figure out what to write about duel flush toilets for quite a while. And as soon as that song came up on my Pandora playlist I was magically inspired to write a captivating paragraph on why duel flush toilets are so cool.  

Shakira is another one of those magical musical muses for me. You would think when it’s time for me to write something intelligent, captivating or inspiring that maybe a little Mozart would do the trick. Nope. Shakira is my girl all the way. Why? Maybe it’s because her hips just don’t lie. Quite honestly, I have no idea.

The point of this little rant is to keep in mind that not everything is as black and white as it seems. Everyone draws inspiration from different places. For some people it comes from music, for some art or text or even other people. Sometimes the silliest things can bring to light a brilliant new idea. I am hoping that I can always continue to be myself and draw my own inspiration out of the things I love and not always follow the traditional path. I also hope Avril never gets ahold of this blog post.

Anyways, enough of this silly little rant. Shakira and I have got to get back to work! 

Dreamer

This is the thing. If you want something don’t be afraid to go get it.

I’ve always been a big believer in dreaming big. I try not to put limits on the things that I want to try. I don’t think anybody should. Yet, we live in a world where people are constantly telling us what we can and can’t do. And the problem is that we listen to them.  

I think the issue is that we get so caught up in the “what-ifs” and we scare ourselves out of trying something new. It’s our nature to want to feel comfortable and secure in what we are doing. But because of that we often times miss out on amazing opportunities.

My two months so far in the advertising industry has taught me a few things:

• Sooner or later you are going to fail at something
• Some of the greatest ideas come from a series of rejections
• Even the highest level executive doesn’t know everything
• If you don’t keep pushing yourself to learn new things you’re never going to advance
• New challenges can be very stressful, but they can also be very rewarding

I’ll be honest with you and say that there are a lot of days in which I have absolutely no idea what I am doing. I’ve failed at a lot of things on my first attempt. But that’s part of the learning process and because of those failures I have learned so many important things. It’s made me a better all around person. It’s also kept me quite humble in the process which is always a good thing.

I’ve learned the importance of immersing myself in everything I can possible be a part of. I’m on my way to becoming an SEO guru, I’ve lined up and will be conducting an interview with a big NYC fashion designer, I will be filming videos for accessories  for one of our clients, and today I was assigned as the sole project manager for a new client. And I’ve only been working for two months. I think that is proof right there that there shouldn’t be limits on what we think we can do.  It’s proof that you shouldn’t be afraid to dive into things and learn as much as you can. The worst thing that could possibly happen is that it doesn’t work out. Then you move onto your next dream. So don’t let anyone tell you what your future is going to look like. Create it for yourself. Simple as that. 

Stay tuned for my big interview with NYC fashion designer CARRIE PARRY later this week! 

The Art of Eating Your Feelings

In my world there is not much that a bowl of chocolate ice cream can’t fix. After a day of stress or disappointment you can usually find me in the kitchen concocting some sort of comfort food or dessert. I’m not sure what it is about baking but it’s a big comfort to me. It takes my mind off of the problem at hand, keeps me busy, and at the end of the day I have something delicious to eat.

These last few weeks have been pretty rough with work, school, and rejection after rejection from jobs I’ve applied to that “just aren’t hiring”. It’s kind of a scary time in my life. I’m only working a minimum wage job, can’t find a full time career, and yet the real world bills are starting to come in.

I know a lot of you reading this are in the same position as I am. And let’s face it…it down right sucks.      (Can I get an AMEN?) My advice to you is to find something you enjoy doing that will pick you up when you’ve fallen face down on the floor. I’ve got a feeling my journey of stress and rejection is just beginning and until I find the right job I’m going to need something to get me through. I also do Zumba…mostly so that I don’t feel guilty about eating my feelings when I need to! J

Today I made a homemade ice cream cake and after the first bite I was already feeling 100% better. Ahhh the power of chocolate! The best part is that they are super easy to make!

How to make a homemade ice cream cake:

     1) Buy any flavor pie crust that you like. I used an Oreo pie crust.

     2)   Pick out an ice cream flavor (or two!) that you enjoy.

     3)   Let ice cream slightly thaw and spread it out into the pie crust.

     4)     Freeze and ENJOY!

Remember friends, it's always darkest just before the dawn. And while you're in the "dark" phase all you might need is a good dessert to get you through! 

Rainbows, Sunshine, and Butterflies

It has officially been way to long since I have made a post in the blog. The reason is because I have just entered the magical time in my life where I begin frantically looking for full time careers because graduation is only two months away. Let me tell you it’s a plethora of rainbows and sunshine and butterflies! I’m going to use this post to jot down some of my thoughts that might be helpful for fellow or future graduates. This new chapter of life can be scary, nerve wrecking, exciting, challenging, empowering, and make you want to pull out all of your hair at one time. Here are a few things I’ve learned in the process:

   1)START EARLY – Start sending out resumes and job inquiries at least 4 months before you graduate. The hiring process can take a long time and chances are you’ll apply to 30 companies and only hear back from one. I am so grateful I started this process a month ago as I am just starting to hear back from places.

   2)SEND OUT EMAIL INQUIRIES - Just because somewhere you want to work doesn’t have a job posted doesn’t mean that they don’t have any open positions.  As a sophomore in college I sent out a random internship inquiry email and ended up with a fabulous job at an advertising agency. In my current job search I’ve gotten nothing but positive feedback. Several agencies weren’t hiring but were happy to put my resume in a file for later down the road. One agency even set up an interview with me. I’m currently waiting for the second interview! It doesn’t hurt to ask. Let’s be honest … the worst thing an agency will do is delete your email because they aren’t hiring. So far in all of my experiences I have gotten nothing but positive reactions.

   3)   THANK EVERYONE YOU TALK TO- This is SO important. Once you finally get the opportunity to interview with somebody make sure they know that you appreciated the time they spent with you. Business people are extremely busy. Even taking 15 minutes out of the day to talk to someone can be a challenge. If someone makes the time for you a thank you card is a necessity.

      4) BE PREPARED- Have your business cards ready to go along with a nice dress suit. In the beginning things can move very slowly. But when things happen they happen fast! Always be prepared!

   5) CONNECT- If you are interested in a specific company and you send them a resume research their social media outlets. Follow them on Twitter or “Like” them on Facebook. Make professional comments on their pages. You never know who’s at the computer reading your messages. Get connected!

   6) FREAK OUT- It’s ok to freak out from time to time. You emotionally invest yourself into job opportunities. It’s normal to be anxious and excited about hearing back from a specific place. This week I went shopping twice, over indulged in chocolate truffles, got a new hair cut, and got my nails done just to keep myself busy and calm my nerves. It’s natural and everybody feels anxiety in these kinds of situations. 

   7)  RELAX- I have to believe that when the time is right I will be placed in the right work situation. I’ve had to remind myself that maybe some opportunities don’t work out because there are better opportunities down the road. Take a breath, relax, and continue to put yourself out there. 

From The Inside Out

You've given me the gift of music...so I will play for You.

So happy to call Matthew Klug my Valentine!

I worked on re-composing "Wanted" (one of my favorite songs) for you. I hope you enjoy it! Wish I could be spending the day with you...but because I can't I will send some love in the form of my music to you!

Random Cookies of Kindness: Building a Personal Brand

Random Cookies of Kindness: Building a Personal Brand

            The idea of personal branding consists of leaving a consumer with a uniquely distinguishable, and ideally memorable, impression about yourself or your business. Establishing a personal brand is a vital part of any kind of business. It’s not rocket science but it seems like many business are forgetting this step of the selling process. Between the ups and downs in the economy and the rising costs of living businesses are doing everything possible to keep people coming through their doors.

 Many places are throwing coupons at consumers in desperation to lure business into their store, giving away merchandise in hopes it will bring in new customers, and purchasing flashy signs to place in front of their stores. While these advertising tactics have a place in the scheme of things it seems as though a piece of the puzzle is missing. Loyal customers are worth their weight in gold to businesses yet they seem to be forgotten in the rush of bringing in new customers. FL!P SiDE Café, located in Gadsden AL, is trying a new approach to keep the customers loyal to their brand. 

On Tuesday Feb. 12^th FL!P SiDE café rolled out the Random Cookies of Kindness campaign. We visited 22 local businesses and surprised them with a hand written thank you card for their loyalty to our products and a box of cookies to brighten up their afternoon. All of the businesses that were visited have either used FL!P SiDE for catering services or have employees that visit the café frequently for their morning coffee or lunch breaks. They are the definition of loyal customers and we thought it was time to reward them for supporting us.

The key to this campaign is not only to reward those who support FL!P SiDE but to also build our brand image in a positive light. The reactions from office to office were incredible resulting in many smiling faces, a woman who actually danced upon receiving a FL!P SiDE goodie box, and a phone call from one of the businesses letting us know that we have made their day with an afternoon pick-me-up. I challenge to you find a coupon that has ever generated that kind of response.

There’s something to be said about showing your customers that you care about them, not just their money. FL!P SiDE Café plans to continue going out into the community to reward our loyal customers and put smiles on people’s faces. People are the most important part of our business and it’s time we showed them how much we appreciate their business.

Ambushed By Social Media

      We are living in a world where more kids are sitting at home on their computers instead of outside playing with friends. Computers are a continually growing trend and so are the social media sites that go along with it. Right now I am working with CH&B on making social media a prominent part of their company. Over the past 2 weeks I have “tweeted” countless messages, posted various facebook statuses, and uploaded a large amount of their portfolio on Flickr and Picasa, online photo sharing websites. I do believe social media is important as it is part of the future of advertising, although I believe if we shift all of our focus onto computer generated interactions we will lose a large part of what advertising really is.

How many times do you sit around the dinner table and discuss how awesome somebody’s tweet was about something? Although it’s possible to be crafty and creative with the copy of a tweet you’ve got 140 characters to get your message across. Not a lot of space for a meaningful message.

Now on the other hand, how often do you sit around the dinner table and discuss how funny a TV commercial was or how creative a magazine ad is? That’s more like it. We even have a full evening every year dedicated to TV commercials; some people refer to it as the Super Bowl.

        What is always on the “must see” list while visiting NYC? Times square of course. Thousands of billboards and flashy signs creatively designed to catch our attention.

        I think I’m making my point clear. Social media definitely has its place in the industry. It’s cheap, quick and easy to use. It’s great for making connections and posting events and news. There have also been some amazing uses of social media such as Jell-O Pudding monitoring sad faces ( L ) in Twitter messages and sending the person with the sad face a coupon for their product. But how often is an ad on the computer, or an event posted on facebook, or a message tweeted on Twitter so appealing that you remember it and bring it up as a conversation piece?

        The thought behind a social media site like Twitter is that a business can tweet about their latest product, investment, achievement or clients. Unfortunately, according to MarketingSherpa Research “nearly two-thirds of marketers aren’t monitoring or responding to comments (both positive and negative) about their company.” It’s something that a accompany gets excited about but forgets about in the long run.

        Once again I would like to reinstate that I am totally for social media marketing, but my passion for advertising definitely doesn’t lie in the form of social media. That’s one of the reasons I’m so grateful for this internship. It’s given me the opportunity to realize that sitting at a desk by myself tweeting and posting isn’t really for me.

        While working on an NSAC campaign for JC Penny I discovered the joy I get from being creative and working together in teams to come up with creative ideas. All three of my commercial ideas were chosen for the plans book as well as a print Ad and 2 billboard ideas. I’m hoping one day you’ll be sitting around your dinner table reminiscing about one of my TV commercials that you’ve seen on TV.

        We also get so wrapped up in the online world we forget how big of a statement something such as outdoor advertising can make. Just like I mentioned above the advertising that takes place in NYC makes Times Square a destination. Now just think of how effective advertising would be for your company if you could provide an ad for each client that was a destination, some place where everybody would want to go to see it. Obviously I live in the real world and know that it would be impossible to do that for every ad produced but it also reels my brain to think how powerful a medium like that for advertising could be. That right there is the kind of work I want to be involved in. Check out this page of billboards created for various companies. I know for sure I would take a second to stop and look at the message that was being given by these billboards:

        http://www.toxel.com/inspiration/2009/01/05/clever-and-creative-billboard-advertising/

        It’s ok that we begin to take a step into the virtual world of social media, as long as we keep one foot planted in the real world. I believe successful advertising is a compatible mix between traditional advertising and the online world of social media. Luckily for me I am getting an inside look at both mediums and learning from professionals how they work together to complement each other. It’s time to get excited about the future, but also to remember where the roots of advertising have been planted for many years.

Living The Dream

  Life is a funny thing you know. Always twisting and turning and just when you think you have some direction you realize your Garmin navigation system of life is yelling at you to make a U-turn in an area in which you know it’s illegal. Then you’re stuck. Stuck in that panicked, lost, horrible situation in which people are honking at you to make a move but you have no idea where you are, what you’re doing, or where you can go from that point. On the other hand life is also funny in the sense that it always works itself out. Sometimes not exactly as you planned it. But it works itself out. I suppose that’s reassuring in this crazy mess of a world we live in. I choose to look at it as an adventure. And trust me that’s exactly what my life has been for the past twenty-two years and I don’t see that changing any time in the near future.

  I was born in Hartford Connecticut and have lived the life as a gypsy ever since. Before you start picturing me playing a cimbalon in big hoop hearing while gazing into a crystal ball let me clarify that I’m not actually a gypsy. My family just thought it would be fun to move every few years; you know just to mix things up a bit. In reality my parents made the moving decisions in order to take better job opportunities so that my sister, brother, and I would have a better future. Or so that’s what we’ve been told. I do have this theory though that they are really secret spies, which is why we are constantly on the move. Regardless, I truly appreciate the sacrifices they have made for us and as far as I can see I haven’t been psychologically damaged in the process. You’ll have to check in with me a few years from now to see how that past statement is holding up.
 

  Currently I live at home with my parents, have two pet guppies named Carl and Lenny, and drive a big black mini-van named Shaniqua. You know, just living the dream. And yes, I do come from a family that names inanimate objects. Let me take this time to remind you I said my life was an adventure…not “normal” in any sense.  I always pictured that at this point in my life I would have my own apartment and a job that doesn’t pay a measly $7.50 an hour. Instead I have two completely pointless online classes standing in the way between me and my degree. World fairy tales and Business 499, aka “learning how to work in a factory”, are the two things that hold me back from landing a professional career. The most frustrating thing is that those classes have absolutely nothing to do with my major.  If I wanted to work in a factory I would have skipped the whole working my butt off for four years studying and working minimum wage jobs to pay for books and ramen noodles to eat so I could survive while living at school. And yet I continue to shell out over $1,000 per class to learn Chinese fairy tales about magicians who train ants to do magic tricks in order to avoid being eaten by their enemies.   One day I’ll look back at this and laugh and once again be reminded of how funny life thinks it is at times.

  The good news is that I was hired to do some freelance advertising/marketing for a local café in town.  I suppose it’s a good stepping stone on the path to becoming an official adult. Looking back at my past I can rest assured that this phase is going to be nothing less than an adventure. That’s ok. I think I’m ready. Bring it life. 

Stay tuned for updates on how this whole southern living thing is going! 

Puzzles

Life is a puzzle. Four corner foundation pieces give us a start in the messy jumble of pieces that we live in. They are an anchor, a reassurance. We must learn which pieces we need to connect to for our own stability and which pieces to avoid that don’t fit comfortably into our lives. Just because we don’t connect with certain pieces in our life doesn’t mean we discard them. We use them down the road to build our life story, to learn, to love, accept, and grow. Without them our story would be incomplete.  We learn to love each piece as an individual as we are all cut in different shapes, sizes, and colors. We learn that our puzzle would be so much more challenging if every piece was the same. Puzzles take time, patience, and hard work much like everything we do in our own lives. Life can be challenging but if you keep at it the ending results can be rewarding. As humans we are constantly searching for our place in life much like every individual puzzle piece is. It’s important to remember we all have a special place in which we belong. Some people find it right away. Some people don’t. Just because you can’t figure it out right away doesn’t mean it’s not sitting there waiting for you when the time is right. Throughout a puzzles life its pieces get lost, edges get worn, and colors begin to fade. To me this shows a life well lived and well loved, for a puzzle in perfect condition it typically rarely used and never loved. In my life I hope I can connect with those I need to connect to, bring new colors into the world of others, and be building block in creating this masterpiece we all call life. And if sixty years down the road I am a little torn around the edges, a few pieces of me are missing, and my colors have begun to fade I can rest in the fact that I have lived a life worth living. 

Carl & Lenny....the adventure begins!

Well I am finally back home and have an accessible internet connection. It's nice to be settled in and I am ready for this new adventure in Alabama.  Although I am happy with where I am at I have quickly come to realize that something very important is missing from my life. My awesome roommates Caitlyn and Lydia that I have spent the past 2 years living with.  I wasn’t sure how I was ever going to fill this void. Then I got creative and found a solution:

Meet Carl (named after Caitlyn) and Lenny (named after Lydia).

Ok. So I know that they are fish.  And there are a lot of differences between my new pets and my roommates. The list is as follows:

1)     Fish are quiet…my roommates are not.

2)    If I kept my roommates in a tank of water they would die.

3)    I only have to feed these guys once a day… my roommates and I ate A LOT.

4)    Fish do not like being hugged.

5)   My roommates are white…and my fish are orange, yellow, purple, pink, and blue.

Obviously the list could go on and on.

Never-the-less I am excited to have my new aquatic friends as roommates and they are a reminder to me every day of the human people I miss so very much!

So starts the journey of Carl and Lenny.

I really hope they make it past a week of living!!!